Buying One’s Wife?
In Abraham and Parashat Ki Teitzei by Rabbi Nathan Lopes Cardozo
The Talmud seems to compare marriage to the purchase of land. But is this comparison really what it seems? In fact, we can flip the script: the Talmud’s comparison isn’t reducing a woman to property; it elevates the Land of Israel to a covenantal spouse. A ring becomes a down payment on lifelong responsibility; the land, a living partner that must be continually ‘courted.’ What if marriage teaches us how to love a land—and a land teaches us how to be a partner?
